Adore Minute : Love Me At Your Best

I had one my AHA's the other day.  I do love it when they come about.  How many of us want a man to need us?  And what does needing us mean?  Does it mean that we are there to make their problems go away or help them through their struggle?  Are we there to keep them honest and keep being the better man they would like to be?  The bottom line is that some of us want a man to really need us and equate that to love!  The measure of his love is on how much he needs us around and how useful we are to them

But what if a man loved us on his best day and we could feel and know that?  When he did not need us to make him feel better or like a man.  His life is perfect and he loves us just because he can.  How powerful would that be to have him see us and love us when all he wants to just to have us for us.

I guess we are all human and will always "need" something.  And there will be "best" days and "needy" days.  What is awesome is seeing how he can love us  through those good and bad days that he has.  Here is to adoring men that show us love on their best days.  When they don't need us but love us anyway because of who we are.  Awesome!