My Latest Date - 5 Things

Hello Darlins!  Things have been awesome lately.  Life has been blessed and I never really realised it till the other day.  I have been getting out there and meeting people and that has been so awesome. I went on a date the other day and here are some takeaways from that date :

1. The way you look is really only one dimension to your package.  It can get pretty amazing when you venture into other dimensions of a person and discover them on multiple levels
2. Feeling sexy and relaxed in your skin is such a great gift you can give yourself, it just adds a whole new level to the interaction
3. Keeping it light is always a good idea for the first date.  Letting your date unfold as you listen and explore with curiousity is also awesome
4. When a date is a part of a glorious day and just one of the many wonderful things in your life to look forward to, you in a great space.  It is when it is THE highlight and only spark of loveliness that you should worry
5. If you can have fun on your own, you have fun with anyone!

Diamonds

So yes, I love this song.  Awesome, Awesome, Awesome!  Miss Rihanna has hit this one out the park. One does get that feeling of connecting with someone and sparks fly.  I am definitely in a new state of mind when it comes to being out there in the city energy and I am finding the city responding in such a beautiful way.  The cliche is true after all.  When the beauty is inside you, it is just a matter of time before the beauty surrounds you and vibrates in your life.

Find that beauty inside you and shine bright like a diamond.  You will be amazed at what reflects back!

Friends With Benefits

I just recently got to watch Friends with Benefits.  The traditional South Africa Sunday evening ritual! I never quite got around to watching it at the cinema but very happy that I finally had a chance to see Justin Timberlake act.  I am yet to see him the Social Network.  I know, how out of touch am I?

Anyhoo, I loved it!  The combination of him and Mila somehow worked. It was cute, funny and brings home the point that Friendship is a key foundation in any good relationship.  Whichever way you look at it, you need to like that person in a deeper sense and like spending time with them.  It is the person you would "spend your Saturday with".  Such a cool metaphor!  So honeyz, as you  go out there and experience the city and mingle, I hope you enjoy it with people you can spend your "Saturday" with.  Be Blessed!

PS : I am crushing on Justin in a big way after this movie.  What a sexy butt he has!  hehehehehe

Your Body

So I have been intrigued by this song ever since I heard it.  I love its attitude, fun filled energy and its sense of freedom.  This is the kinda of song you want to strut to.  The video is interesting though.  I got the sense of a serial killer type that seduces and destroys.  Interesting!  But hopefully we can get past that and enjoy the song.  Have a sexy week!

Friday Inspiration - It Is Worth It

I am in week 2 of my medical diet.  It has not been the easiest road so far as all my patterns are screaming at me and it is fascinating just how distracted one can live! So there is a mental and emotional detox that I am going through seeing that I have cut out my number 1 drug that numbs and takes it away when I need to escape.

This is the thing with going through change!  You do lose sight of the shore at times and this is where some faith and focusing on the bigger picture helps.  I wish you all the courage, faith and awareness as you experience any good change that you are going through. May your bliss be there for you to enjoy. Hugz

Food And The City - 5 Things

I hope that Halloween was awesome this weekend past.  That all the parties were fabulous! I have recently teamed up with a doctor to help me lose this excess weight that I have been carrying for as long as I can remember.  The idea is to lose this excess 10 kgs that I carry generally and keep it off.  What I was not prepared for was what I would experience in the city with this new framework :

1. Sugar is everywhere! This is from alcohol to yummy sauces to just all that delicious food.  And sugar is the number one source of carrying excess weight so I am just so shocked at how much sugar there is out there.
2. Convenience is not healthy.  With loooooong work hours or a long day in general.  Who has energy to cook when you walk in your home door?  So the drive-throughs are so welcomed but not necessarily the right thing for you on a consistent basis
3. Supersize is everywhere! I am amazed how big the portion sizes are when I now realise what  I actually should be eating in terms of portion size.  I now see how we generally tempted everyday to be overeaters!
4. Water is not drunk like it should be.  We all need to take in liquids.  But the cappuccinos, alcohol, fizzy drinks, flavoured water all start substituting the basic taste of water that has all we need
5. Being an outcast or encouraged to be not healthy.  It is not as blatant as that.  But dare you not drink alcohol at a party or eat and indulge at a gathering, a work function, a working lunch, etc!  You are so the outcast for wanting to be healthy.  Does take a bit of courage to take on those looks of disbelief that you actually making healthy choices!

So to all those trying to make healthier choices in the city, all I can bless you with is wisdom and creativity.  Because it ain't all easy going out there.  Hugz