This has been a big lesson of late for me. How do you hold people accountable around you? How strong are you with filtering the real issue when dealing with other people? For my life, I have see how this adds extra complexity and stress when I take on someone else's issue and solve it for them. I am seeing how time is being drained from my week to solve the problems of others which at the end of the day, does not help that person nor myself. They do not learn how to own their happiness and get aligned to the flow of their life and I am left frustrated for neglecting myself.
This is something big to get for me! That it is ok to allow people to figure out what they need to do for themselves to make themeselves better, happier or stronger. It will never be my job to control or take action for another's life and what they need to do to make it work.
So be aware of where you take on the "work" of making someone else happier, more at peace or keeping them together. It is important to inspire their action rather than take it on and do it for them. You end up with no time for you, for what makes you happy and keeps you sane.
So Today, make the choice to take on the work for your life and leave the rest where it belongs. The responsibility of the other person to seek happiness for their life!
Great post yet again Crazeebee, I for one have learnt to lesson of looking after only my path in life, the result, happiness :)
ReplyDeleteAmen to that Gemel! It seems like it is not the outcome but it turns out that way when you actually do it. Amen!
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