Trust is like a mirror. You can mend a broken mirror but you can still see the cracks in the reflection!
It probably is up to the individual how they choose to deal with this. I believe that trust is more about you not trusting yourself! Think about this! When someone breaks your trust and hurts you and takes the safety away that they have your best interests at heart, when you really look back, you know there were moments when that voice spoke to you to do something, ask something or get the truth on something! But you ignored that and gave that person the benefit of the doubt!
And then it happens . . . . . . . . . . they break your trust!
So for me, the song of trust on broken strings, or the mended mirror is all about trusting in yourself and your response. If it is that boyfriend that has come back for try number 2, if it is that friend that has promised to treat you differently after hurting you or if it is your family that promises they will do things differently, the point is that you know deep down what must happen and what you must do.
So it is about trusting in your response, your decisions and what you feeling. And then it is the courage to make the choice that takes you forward. So check and look around at those that have broken your trust. Do you trust that you are in a place of making the best choice for you even if an option is to have them not part of your life? Do you trust that you can make the choice that best serves your happiness?
That is the bottom line of broken trust for me if those people come back into your life. It is about trusting in your response with what you know!
Love
CB
Take The Trust Test and see where you stand. Some other views on trust from some of my favorite bloggers. My LifeScape speaks about lessons in Love. A Bucket List on Being Brazen speaks about being a trapeze artist. Now that is trust!
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