The Drought

Sex!  It is the reality of those that have ventured there, tried it and loved it.  And yes, for the person that knows how great it can be, there is the need to try and get some in on a regular basis.  Some keep it within a relationship and some keep it going by trying different men.  It all does come down to connecting and enjoying intimacy with someone.

In this episode, Miranda was going through a drought of note.  She was on the 3 month no sex mark and was beginning to feel the emptiness of not having regular sex with someone.  She distracted herself and was in this rut of self hatred and frustration because she had not found someone to enjoy that intimacy with.

This is one subject I guess gets attention whichever emotion is attached to it.  It manages to get some sort of focus whatever walk of life you come from.  No matter how strongly some of us feel about it, or how many of us deny its existence, sex has a place in our lives.  Whether we like it or not, it has a place.  Existing or not existing!

So what happens when it simply just disappears on you after enjoying it for some time?

Well, I have come to understand that all we want is around us, just in a form that we do not recognize.  So that high, that experience we get back from sex is manifested in a different form.  There has to be something in one's life where they get the same high as when having great sex.  For some it is the form of creating art, a project, a venture, their families etc or simply the visual stimulation of watching others go at it on film, or browsing through provocative sexy pics of men etc!

Either way it is channelled into something else and not the act itself.  All I can say on this subject is that when it ain't around, one has to ask the question of where you channelling all that energy and loving?  And one can most likely work it back to where your priorities are.  Again, it is the choice of sticking to what your current priorities are, or allowing them to shift.  But there is no denying that when sex is connected, synced, intimate and emotionally and physically safe, there is just no beating it and this CrazeeBee would certainly miss that kind of special experience ;)

So enjoy it when it is around and when it disappears, know that you can make your back it simply by allowing a shift in your priorities.  For some, the road back is longer.  Faith and the art of allowing is all I'm saying xoxo