Call Me Maybe

The dating scene these days can be very interesting for those in their 30's and looking to find love.  There is the whole put it out there and then go with the opportunities as they come vibe.  But recently, I realised that what we think, what we say and what we do don't always link up.  It opens a whole new view of how we communicate with the world with what we really want.  But there is nothing but learning about it as you go along.

This week goes to all the singletons in their 30's !  Especially my fellow gay men.  Some of us are big on this NSA thing of which a select few really mean it, some are keen to be friends and confuse that with sex and some of us just want to connect and go about it in the wrong places.

Here is to meeting someone, getting that awesome feeling inside and just going with the next step.  The more and more this life unfolds for me, the more I see how being clear with what you really want opens the door to explore that on a real basis.  Here is to linking up what we think, feel, say and act!

All About CrazeeBee

What a week the first week of September has been.  Very happy that my blog is back in action.  I hope I do get the time to pour my love and voice into this going forward like I used to.  Life has been as follows :

• Highs - I realised that I am beginning to live the reality of an intention I set out 3 years ago.  To help shape and drive transformation in whatever I do.  My career and personal passions are beginning to come together in such a way to allow me to shape it and drive out a service.  I am sooooo grateful and hopefully I will do it justice and be a vehicle for positive change!
• Lows - I am working a bit toooooo hard.  But I am beginning to see where I am blocked on my communication.  What I think / feel to what I say to what people hear are not aligned.  I have some work to unravel this.  But is causing me taking on work for other people :(
• Most proud of my weight loss eating food I love!  Been 5 weeks and I am 4 kgs lighter.  Just another 9 kgs to go.  Going to be interesting with the next set of kgs to drop
• Most grateful for all the support I get from the universe.  Absolutely amazed by all the blessings in my life to date and how things are just falling into place
• You must try Ostrich. Been preferring it over beef these days and it goes well with everything
• Been loving Prince Harry lately. I think I have a crush on him.  It is the ginger hair ;)

Hugz Darlins

Friday Inspiration : Love Starts With You

Whether we like to admit it or not, Love does start inside.  When you decide to love yourself and treat yourself with kindness and gentleness, the rest of the pieces of your life connect into that and it starts flowing throughout.  We all chase this fantasy that it lies outside us and we keep looking and working hard to get it from an external source.  May you be inspired to start with you and the first step is simply allowing yourself to be yourself and you being ok with that.

Happy weekend! Hugz

Guilt Is A Fearful Response To Wanting Forgiveness!

To feel guilty is really about acknowledging that something is not right on the inside with how you behaved, a choice you made, the way you treated someone or how someone felt about a decision you made or how you acted.  It is a twisted way of asking yourself for forgiveness.  I got this from reading an article by Gary Zukav.  It really resonated with me.  He described guilt as a fearful response from one's personality.

I took away that it is a fearful response to asking for forgiveness.  To understand that you could have made a better choice, behaved better or been more in touch with your best rather than your insecure side.  So the trick is to forgive yourself and know that the power is in the now for you to make a better choice in this moment.

That has been the greatest realisation for me.  That no matter what you feel and how bad you feel, it does not help punishing yourself with more destructive behaviour or playing suffer the martyr!  There is a power within you to make better choices and move forward better and stronger that you are now.  And you have access to that! So why not embrace it and move forward better than before?

So go for the great and know that your best is within you.  It is a matter of you accessing it!  Read more of Gary had to say : Gary Zukav - 5 Things You Can Learn From Guilt

A Hopeless Situation Is Not So Hopeless - 5 Things I Have Learnt

1. There is always power of choice.  That means the next moment is up to you how you respond and move forward.  It may even be to choose to be grateful for the next 2 minutes and take it from there
2. As difficult and bullshitty as this sounds, it is true.  There is a lesson but the lesson is in the perspective or changing of position of how you see the situation.  In most cases it is a clue for you to understand what you need to integrate into your wisdom volt going forward
3. It is a spiral of experiences. Which means the experience never goes away.  It will keep coming back.  What does change is the level of consciousness you have to deal with it that makes it no longer a big deal provided you have integrated the wisdom.  That in itself is a huge miracle when your consciousness / perspective grows
4. Open yourself to inspiration i.e. allowing spirit to speak to you.  For some it is writing it out and then the AHA comes.  For some it is going for a walk and for some it is music.  Find your mechanism that allows you to open up your awareness to receive messages
5. Release the negative energy!  I have found this to be the most powerful for me.  I have discovered toning as a practice which I will share later this week in the CrazeeBee Love section.  But get in touch with the frequency of the hopeless feeling and release it and then move yourself to a much more positive frequency.  It does wonders with what unfolds for you

You Can Find Love Anywhere

Hello Again!!!

It has been so long since I posted.  I guess I got wrapped up in the change that was happening in my life.  So much was happening and transforming and my voice somehow got silenced in this or retreated.  I needed to be aware and listen to what was unfolding.  I did not have much to say nor much to share, simply absorbing and dealing with what was being thrown at me.  So after some time in my cocoon, I am beginning to find my voice again.  So I hope life has been good to you and blessings have been abundant.

September is spring month and with it new birth and new beginnings.  I have been realising more and more how much love there is out there! It is a matter of seeing it!  So this week, I wish you all the ability to find and see love in any situation you find yourself in.  A change of perspective is a true miracle that you can give yourself.  Be willing to surrender your fear, guilt and resistance and embrace that there is a higher view or perspective to what you seeing in your current situation.  Simply ask and allow for that new perspective.  Happy miracles!  Hugz