CrazeeBee Love : What's Your Number

In the CB love section this week, I am giving a shout out and lots of love to the movie "What's your number".  It is hilarious and pleasantly surprising how Chris Evans turns out to be more of a man that I saw him to be.  And this speaks to the characters he plays and not him personally (sorry Chris!).  I loved how his character unfolded in the movie and became more lovable, adorable and awesome as the movie continued.  Sometimes it is great to get that guy that is there to help to unpack your baggage and help you get to just being you.  Yum!!!!   So if you in the mood for a funny rom-com, I do recommend this.  Enjoy!

The Story Of The Shape Shifter

This week's tale of insight is around the form in which your desires are currently manifesting into.  I read about this concept that we have all we need.  We just need to recognise the current form it is in.  If it is not in our desired form, it can be transformed.  That is as far as I got.  The transforming side of things I am still working on.  But there is some truth in recognising the form of what your desire is currently manifested in.

Seeing that we are on Man Awesomeness month, let's take your perfect relationship with your perfect man.  For some the perfect relationship can be currently manifested in a solid strong amazing friendship.  It could be a work relationship or a person you know from your sports club or someone you go to class with.  How you are with them lives out your desire.  And that says something about where you comfortable playing to experience being your perfect relationship with your perfect man.

I do see that as you drop baggage and peel away misunderstandings and make decisions to tell yourself a different story, that the form or status quo does start to shift.  I have realised that my bliss zones are definitely in the emotional and mental areas of what I call perfect relationships.  And the physical area was not always something I used to balance well.  It somehow used to get de-prioritised when going for the bliss factors in a relationship.  So every perfect relationship for me in the past has been one where the physicality could never manifest fully!  It was always deep and amazing within the mental and emotional areas.  So examples of the perfect man relationships I had were predominately straight men that I had amazing connections with and it never went further than amazing mental and emotional connections.

As I have learnt to balance the areas in my life and unpacking making different choices for my happiness, so do I see how the shifts have happened in my life.  So whether you are attached or single, the same concept applies to you.  You will manifest on a form that best serves where your desire and priorities are currently settled!  The good news, it can change when you story inside changes! Go Strong!

CB Awesome Man List : The Men That Made A Difference

If one looks back, there have definitely been men that have played a significant role in our path to date.  I can surely look back and see now with love the roles they played in my life and how it shaped my insight and deepened my wisdom.  I could see myself from a different angle and know myself deeper as a result.  This is a thank you to them for taking me deeper to know who I am.  My key takeaways :


5 - My First Love - I have something special inside that is beautiful and worth loving.  And sometimes it is up to me to love that most of the time
4 - My First Serious Boyfriend - Intimacy requires you both to feel equal to each other to open up and grow together
3 - My Dad - We are perfectly human and it pays to put your trust on the principles of love rather than a human being
2 - My Hero - I have those great traits within me, I just need the courage to acknowledge and let it shine within me
1 - Me - I am open and aware and that staying humble and curious allows me to learn and grow to bliss

What have been your key takeaways from the men that have made a difference?

Next To You

I was very grateful for this weekend past.  It allowed me to have some breakthroughs on what I was really feeling deep inside.  I could not understand with everything going relatively well why I was so down and carrying negative energy.  Something was nagging at me and I just let it be until the weekend.  But with some breathing space, I discovered what it was all about.  I will share in due time.  I just need some time to process it for myself.

Having said that, there is nothing like a good sweet song to make me smile.  This is one of them.  For the single folk, this can be a great one to get you closer in though and feeling to the man that is perfect for you.  For the attached, just a good excuse to cuddle and appreciate your man.  Either way, it rocks to have them close to you.  Hugz

Some Inspiration : Vision Of Love

I love the sentiment of this song.  The words say it all.  So soak in the Vision Of Love you have yourself and your life and set them free.  Know that the blessings will unfold for you!  Mwah!

Treated me kind

Sweet destiny

Carried me through desperation

To the one that was waiting for me

It took so long

Still I believed

Somehow the one that I needed

Would find me eventually

I had a vision of love

And it was all that you've given to me

Prayed through the nights

Felt so alone

Suffered from alienation

Carried the weight on my own

Had to be strong

So I believed

And now I know I've succeded

In finding the place I conceived

I had a vision of love

And it was all that you've given to me

I had a vision of love

And it was all that you've given me

I've realized a dream

And I visualized

The love that came to be

Feel so alive

I'm so thankful that I've received

The answer that heaven

Has sent down to me

You treated me kind

Sweet destiny

And I'll be eternally grateful

Holding you so close to me

Prayed through the nights

So faithfully

Knowing the one that I needed

Would find me eventually

I had a vision of love

And it was all that you've given to me

I had a vision of love

And it was all that you

Turned out to be

CrazeeBee Love : French plus Rugby = Yum

Watched a Rugby game the other day and got to see Frederic Michalak in action.  He is French, Sporty and Adorable!  He also gets the latest most kissable award from CrazeeBee.  So sending out love to an awesome rugby player.  So happy he lives and plays in South Africa.  We have welcomed him into our land to stay and enjoy.  Delight in this sexy adorable man.