My 20's were truly a blur. I do remember having quite a few wild moments and loads of energy. Did I use it all wisely? No a chance. But through it all I did learn soooo much. Being 20 and aware has been the biggest gift I gave myself. But there is the youth and beauty that I took for granted. Ask me to go back and I actually am likely to decline the offer and here is why :
- There is a wisdom you get in your 30's where you figure out and conclude quicker about a challenge or situation. Your clarity on your next step definitely comes quicker in your 30's
- Your happiness and comfortability definitely feature more strongly in your decision making. The disease to please is less than before
- Sex is better! I guess it is about exploring and experiencing on more than just one level
- Taking moments and savouring them are just so much more powerful
- There is a confidence in yourself whether it be emotionally or mentally. There is more belief in what you about and how you handle situations
I'm finding the above 5 to be true of my late 40s, not my 30s. That was a rocky time in my life, when I look back on it.
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