Relationships are interesting in what they can do for the individual. As I have said before, they are very powerful mirrors that reflect so much back to us to work with. But there are some of us out there that really want it in such a way that we get what we perceive is the best of a relationship and thus ask the individual to only share parts of who they are so it ticks the parts of the relationship that we like.
Hence the terms "friends with benefits" or "#@$! Buddy" come along where it is just the physical and the togetherness that it allows. You also get the guy that gets married and has kids and yes ladies, he has some boy as a side of deliciousness that needs to understand his closet situation and play the sex toy on the side without any real chance of something deeper with that married man. So there are some of us that do perceive that relationships have a great part and we only need to experience the good parts and get out or not be present when the perceived "bad" parts are around.
In this episode Miranda bumps into Skipper with his new girlfriend. She goes straight into player hater mode and judges the women. She then opens the door to Skipper which he happily enters and they sleep together for old time sake. Skipper is all elated and finally believes that Miranda truly wants him back. Miranda just wants the comfortable sex and is not ready for a full blown relationship. And she states that. She ends up losing Skipper as he finally draws the line and has enough of her closed nature and her only wanting sex from him. Miranda misjudged the intensity of Skipper's feelings.
For CrazeeBee, it comes down to what you can handle and how you become aware of what you deserve and how the reality matches what you really desire? If you feel that you ok with someone that cannot fully give of themselves and be there with you through the good and the bad, then you will have people in your life that cannot fully be there because of their issues or another relationship. I feel it is just difficult to interact with another human being and box what they must do or be to make you happy for a sustained long period. Controlling someone can never be achieved long term and ends up never going the way either party intended.
When someone is asking for very specific parts of a relationship, it usually speaks to the parts of them they want to keep closed and them not being open to share and connect that to the bigger flow of life. They are not in the space to embrace it being open to change for the better. They are not ready to deal with potential contrast that asks them to question if it does meet their best life or highest good. They prefer the safety of that current story.
Mwah!
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