Safe Sex

Sex Toys!  I have no idea what the real stats on sex toys are and what the bottom line could be.  I do know that some people have them, enjoy them and have them handy in case of back up.  There are some that believe that sex toys close the door for another person to enter your life, there are some that believe that in this world of HIV that sex toys are probably the safer route to go and then there are some that believe that sex toys are the eventual replacement of a man!

In this episode, Miranda goes on about about how obsolete men will become one day.  That they are no longer needed for marriage, relationships, money and even sex.  She got herself a sex toy and could proudly announce that she could guarantee her next orgasm without working a man into the equation.

Sex Toys are considered safer sex as you only have to deal with yourself in the whole equation.  There is a machine that has no feeling, cannot give you feedback and do exactly what you command it to do. There is no contrast, no reflection back to you of anything, just you, your toy and the safety of a protected environment to get rather intimate and let go!

There is nothing wrong or right with the above.  If your desire is to connect with another deeply and share something special, then at some point, the toy needs to take a vacation for the man to be in a place to connect with.  With anything in life, it is about balance!  It is about opening up to experience and being honest with yourself.

I bet that Miranda at that point in her life, would rather deal with a sex toy than with a man.  It just seemed easier and safer.  And why?  Because there really was not another human being to deal with.  Another human being that would reflect back and mirror stuff back to Miranda to deal with.  And there would be no doubt that there would be some tough stuff for her to deal with given her state of mind.  Men can be compared to objects and are disposal and to be controlled, so that would be the type of level of man she would have to deal with.

So to those that have sex toys, ENJOY them.  Always remember that it is about being happy and comfortable in your own skin first.  Give other human beings the respect of connection and be humble and curious when dealing with them.

Mwah!