Romance can be such a drug! I can see why. We as humans crave love and love gets us to experience some intense special out of this world feelings. Some are great at giving that to themselves and some are not so great at doing that. So for those who have not mastered giving that to themselves, it is natural that when someone does come along, that they get hooked and crave a constant fix from that person.
In this journey of love and sharing your life with someone, fair exchange exists for me where you own and take responsibility of making yourself happy. When you can tell that person from your heart that they are off the hook to make you happy, strong and blissful then the terms of engagement are fair from your side of the deal. The same goes for you expecting that that person take responsibility and does not need you as a drug to make them strong, happy and blissful.
Take at a look at romance and your position to it. Are lovers off the hook to make you happy and are you off the hook from loved ones to make them happy? Can they just simply be who they are around you without pressure from you to make them different to make your life better? Is that the same for you when you deal with them?
Can you both simply just be as you are?
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