5 Things From Funerals / Memorial Services

I recently had to say goodbye to a great man that played a part in one of the most significant milestones in my my life.  I never imagined that the day would come where I would have to attend a funeral of someone my age at this time in my life.  But death is as much a part of life on earth as anything else.  So as I was sitting in the church, the following was very clear to me:

1. I love how amongst all religions or spiritual practices that there is one of the themes that stay constant.  That you have access to a great power and that this great power is there whenever you need it.  We may not fully understand it but it is there helping us live our best life
2. If ever you ask how to be of value to those grieving.  It is simply saying, I am here for you.  That's all.  Nothing profound is needed, nothing to soothe pain, it is simply you being willing to be there for that person
3. There is laughter and joy at funerals.  It is a time to remember and cherish what was great about that person and how they touched the lives that are there to pay respect
4. Going back to your hometown after a long time is a way to make you see how you have evolved.  You realise when you open, that you can change for the better
5. You have the opportunity to take stock and really question if you are doing what you need to do to live and fulfil your best life. You appreciate how short life is and that it should not be wasted on things that do not bring you joy