Song Crush : Let's do the unthinkable! If ask me I'm ready!

I usually do not do a mid week Song Crush but I am simply in love with this song.  Now this makes me feel free and screams get the balls to set up and do what is important to you!  Enjoy! I am HOTstepping to this ;)

Tit Bit : Some familiar territory . . . . . . Joy!

I went out to a birthday dinner last night.  It was interesting.  The table make up consisted of contingents from some parts of the globe including UK, South America and South Africa.  Dinner was great followed by a dance stint by a cool little hang out with a live band.  I had a blast!  I felt that feeling of "Hometown Glory"

I spoke about this feeling in my previous posts Hometown Glory and Hometown Glory continued!  I realised I was happy as I was tapping into that magic space where I was connecting, learning and being in the moment.  The music was great, the company was great and the energy was just awesome.  I felt like was in a scene from Sex and the City at some party that rocked.  That is what I miss, that let go and enjoy type set up.

Today, I see what this means for me.  I have got caught up in the noise of my life and head.  I now need to re-connect with that "Hometown Glory" vision that I had when I wrote those previous posts and get myself tuned in on that frequency.  Then does it really matter where I find myself in this world?  No it does not I feel.  I have been battling with moving to Europe, it is like this life long ping pong that has been going on in y head.  When I graduated university the question came up, when I left my first company, again the dilemma, a year ago and now it is at my doorstep again.  And everytime I go into a spin about it as it creates soooooo much noise in my head!

But I am seeing that I have to stay clear on what home is for me and build that vision.  The city and lifestyle will then drape how it needs to around that vision and feeling.  I believe this!  Amazing how a basic minute of just breathing triggered this!  That was just  Day 1 of meditating on the go!  Day 2 now has my interest ;)

Take Care honeyz! Mwah!

Loving Glee some more . . . . . . What it feels like for a girl

Cool twist having the boys sing it up. Found it kinda hot . . .

Song Crush : Let's play . . . . . . Touch my Body!

This song is funny, playful and sexy!  I love how light it is.  That is how you meant to feel around your guy.  Light, fun and playful!  A nice reminder that you need that ;)

Song Crush : You go sexy Sasha Fierce . . . .

Beyonce in Sasha Fierce mode is a sexy gal to observe.  Powerful, sexy and desirable!  This song simply renminds me of what it means to be sexy and know it and live it! Sizzle Sizzle!

Divas Deluxe!

I love a diva that can sing, perform and live in her power!  There is just something I love about girl power and the sexiness and power that comes with that!  My list of sexy DIVA's.  Yum! Yum!  Looks like I am into lists lately ;)

15) Britney Spears
I can go wild dancing to her music.  It is just great dance music that she does hit after hit after hit.  The girl commands attention! That is for sure!

14) Kelly Rowland
Sassy and sexy.  A soul sista!  Love her vibe!

13) Alanis Morissette

Wisdom, depth and intellect.  That makes her sooooo sexy.  The way she thinks!

12) Jennifer Lopez

I find her beautiful.  She is a marketing genius and knows all about branding!  This women knows business and has combined it very well with beauty!  Oh yes and the dancing, go Miss Thang!

11) Rihanna

Sexy and edgy!  I love her superstar quality!  The girl can tear off the roof simply with presence! Put your hands up! Respect!

10) Alicia Keys

Grace, beauty and she is like music royalty! Miss Keys = talent, creative, highly respected and beautiful!

9) Kelly Clarkson

The original american idol.  She can sing and she let's it out in a powerful way.  I love how innovative she is!  She is also very real!  The girl next door.

8) Jordin Sparks

Sweetie Pie!  I love her music. It has very true and has such sweet messages.  She has this angelic way which is very wholesum.

7) Beyonce

Miss Sascha Fierce.  She is just sexy and intense.  Love that!

6) Mariah Carey

I love her ability to achieve.  She has the most number 1 hits in the entire list.  That is an awesome record and I love this about Miss Mariah.  She is bankable!  She followed a formula and did was needed from the system and great found success.  She is herself these days and she is happy and it shows.  Loving it!

5) Whitney Houston

Soul sister!  I love her voice.  She can make you feel!  It truly is a gift that she can take you on a journey by using her amazing talent!  Go sista!

 

4) Janet Jackson

Sexy Sexy Sexy is all I got to say.  I love the way she moves and how she can have you hypnotized as a result.  Big lessons from this master seductress. 

3) Christina Aquilera

She made a huge impression on me when she released her Stripped album.  The whole concept of release and stripping down and exposing your pain to the light showed her strength and  freedom.  I love how multi faceted she is and how she embraces exploring that!  Diverse and powerful from knowing who she is!  Love it!

2) Brandy

Brandy and I seem like we grew up together.  We went through our phases together which is why I feel so connected to her.  When I listen to her music I feel like it is pages out my life's book.  She has really evolved for me in terms of her beauty!  Like a fine wine!  I so identify!

1) MadonnaNeed I say more?  Timeless, adapatable, powerful and so strong to express her true self no matter who says what.  That is probably the one thing I love sooooooo much about Madonna.  She was true to herself and just set the bar!  Leads the pack . . . .

We find the reasons why one step at a time . . . .

What a week this has been!  I have gone from feeling extremely high as a result of living in my personal power, making valuable contributions, feeling apart of something great to the other side of feeling like I am drowning, overwhelmed by too many choices and lack of clarity and feeling violated and abused!  It was a mad roller coaster and as I write this, I am feeling rather tired and grateful for my couch :)  At any given moment this week, it just felt that there so much to think about, take in, be aware of and the clarity of what was important and the next step was not always there!  And I am left with alot of anger that wants to be expressed!

So this got me thinking.  I remember speaking about power moments and gravitating towards having more of them in a given day, week, month etc.  But what if it is more doing the work necessary to bringing the best of you to any moment that you have in front of you.  When I look back at this week, there were some great moments when everything just went right and all there were simply a series of wonderful moments, it just came together perfectly.  I felt a swell up of gratitude and soaking up how great it all was and being in the power moment was just easy!  But then there were those nasty ones and the cross road! How you handle it ???????

That for me was the powerful realisation.  In those nasty bad moments, when you look back, can you really see if the best of you was brought out in that moment??????  I know there were the moments where I was completely irrational and ruthless and took the "off with your head" approach.  And in retrospect, I understand why I did that and where it was coming from.  My particular case this week as all about my resistance to change.  I could link how aggressive I get when the status quo changes that takes my control or manifestation of harmony away!  I go into charging bull take no prisoners mode!  And Lord does the best of ruthlessness come out!  Definitely something to release : The rigidness to change that probably is good for me but because the how does not match my how, it is not to be embraced.

But having said that, all I really wanted to share this week is that do not simply write off the bad moments and focus on the good powerful ones.  The bad moments and how you are in that moment has its place and can be held to the light to understand and get insight from.  You can still bring the best of you to those moments.  You can still be empowered, clear, decisive and respectful.  And when you find that your power is no where to be found in the nasty moment, the opportunity for the discovery of a blinspot, a shadow is there to be released or put to the light.  The connectivity constantly amazes me!

So here is to bringing the best of you to any moment and having the path revealed to you to get what you need to be the best in any moment! Mwah!

Song Crush : A sexy little number to just LET GO and enjoy . . . . .

This song takes me back to my university days. It is the let go throw your hands up and simply enjoy! Do your THANG!  Explore and just be there, BREATHE and the bliss comes . . . .

Song Crush : Keep singing your SONG and moving forward . . . . .

When I heard this song, I fell in love with Kurt!  Just taking on a diva and being true to himself.  I am all about following what makes you happy even if it means breaking the mould.  This song reminds me of that.  Enjoy!

The Pleasure Principle : Teen Boy Crushes

I have realised that there some things that are just fun to do. They make no sense at the time but they simply pleasurable! Herewith the introduction of "The Pleasure Principle" label. Just simply expressing the what brings pleasure. Enjoy!

So when this concept first came to me , I ended up thinking back to when I had my little boy crushes. (I think it came after watching a re-run of Bird on a Wire on TV) It was all so innocent and I remember that I kept saying to myself when I grow up, I cannot wait to date men like that. So below is the top 15 guys during my age of innocence. I felt this attraction to them but did not understand what it meant at that time! hehehehehe enjoy a trip down memory lane with me! below a collection of my favourite men from my teens . . . . . .

15) Michael DouglasThe man = Walking sex! Blush!

14) Charlie Sheen

The bad boy your Mamma warned you against but you just need to have a ride with for getting the T-shirt sake!

13) Bruce Willis

The sexy clumsy man! Just always seems to get in trouble but sooo cute how he deals with it!

12) Jeff Bridges

The Adonis! Yummy in Against All Odds!

11) David Duchovny
The sexy man where looks meet personality! Divine!

10) Boris Becker
The sexy freak! Something about all that blonde and pale skin! Don't judge just love :)

9) Kevin Costner
The sweet man that you know will rescue and care for you

8) Michael J Fox
The heartthrob, the first epic high school boyfriend type!

7) Tom Cruise
The dream man! All girls went wild, I just joined in on the fun!

6) Tom Selleck
Yes, I loved him. Just a man in all his masculinity! All just out there! Loved him!

5) Steve Guttenberg
The sexy funny man. I love a man that can make me laugh!

4) Robert De Nero

The sexy rough and tough man!

3) Tony Danza
The sexy hubby nurturer type!

2) Alec Baldwin

The sexy guy that has a bit of everything. The jack of all trades aka the Perfect Man!

1) Mel Gibson

I loved his character in the Lethal Weapon series. The guy you would fall for! Hard and fast and knowing life will never be the same just knowing him. Knowing an adventure is a guarantee, someone that will get under your skin, that you will love and will love you and that scares you that excites you! Just something special that you want all the time!