Position Other Than 1 Available . . . . . I'll Take It!

All humans have a priority or value list!  And the way life goes, it is ranked and the world and people are experienced through that.  Experiences happen in life and then you  realise where you rank on the priority list of another.  Your partner makes choices to spend time in other areas and you always seem to not be number 1, when it comes to the crunch and your friend has a choice of who to help, they choose to smooth over another's pain over yours, your parents favour a sibling over you, you give your all at work to be respected and valued but somehow others always get more recognition, opportunity and money than you!

There is enough evidence you can gather on any subject on how you rank up against another's priority list.  The question is do you buy into it and let it control your choices and behaviour?

Simply put, the only priorities or values that need to grab your attention is your current ones!  And how happy you are with their order and how closely you are living them. If that is your life's focus, the rest gets a place that has little to no power over you.  When one is so busy worrying about the next person's success (whether deserving or not) or the next person getting more with "perceiving" them doing less, it is clear that their bigger picture for their life is no longer clear to them!

So the next time you feel the world is a bit unfair or that others are getting so  much more for doing so much less than you, it is life screaming at you to get back in touch with your bigger picture.  And you start by taking a look at your value system and the ranking of that and how it is currently manifested in your life!

You will soon realise that being number 2 on any subject is by your doing and not that of another.  You will also realise when you brave enough that the power and choice lies with you to move up to the number 1 position.

Love
CB

Today Was A Fairytale!

I heard this song the other night and it got me thinking.  Imagine you could every night before going to bed say to yourself "Today was a fairytale"  OMG!  How amazing would that be!

I encourage you to use this song as inspiration and ask yourself, what would life look like to have you say every night that that day was indeed a fairytale?  Hold that feeling, that image, that love for the life that would make you say that.

Now surrender it to the Universe and enjoy the life where you can sing every day with gratitude about how wonderful it is.

Love
CB

Blog Crush : A Slice of Gay Pie: Do we all measure up?

I found this to be a cute and adorable post.  I guess when it comes down to most things in life, when you love it the rest of the world loves it.  It all starts with you loving yourself first.  Enjoy it!

A Slice of Gay Pie: Do we all measure up?: "A graph on the world's cock sizes - from another blog - got me thinking about how much size really matters? Are men suppose to believe..."

Some Things I am Loving . . . . .

There is sooooo much good in life these days that I cannot really contain my excitement and happiness.  It is good to be alive and blessed.  We tend to forget that when we get caught up in life.  Here are some of the moments/experiences/things that have got the deluxe of CrazeeBee love!

Inspired Action - I cannot fully explain this but there comes these moments when all the stars align and everything simply goes your way.  Every word you say, every action you take is effortless, energising and brings back more than expected.  It is like you are plugged into something amazing that is simply making it all unfold in a wonderful way.  I have had some of those experiences of late and I must say they are delicious!

Someone that asks for your advice and you see the difference it makes in their life! - This is probably the most highest compliment a person or life can bring you.  When someone comes to you for advice and you share it.   Then you witness how they have applied it and how they have blossomed and grown into something better and stronger than what they were.  Precious!

Facials - I have gotten back into facials.  What was I thinking taking a break from them in the first place. I love how beautiful you feel with that skin that feels like it is glowing!








Supernatural Series 5 - Yum Yum Yum!  I have finally got my hands on it.  I will admit for the first couple of series I was a serious Dean camp but in season 4, Sam in all his darkness drew me in.  So now I am a fully fledged Sam camp.  Go sexy!  He is delicious though.

Winter is a coming - Winter is on it's way to South Africa.  Although I was born in heart of winter, I also am not a fan of freezing weather but a HUGE fan of winter fashion!  It is gorgeous and I am excited to see what is out for this winter.  Yay!

It's Coming Over Me Like It's Coming Over You

There is something so inviting about this song.  Have you ever just sat and watched waves in action.  They build up and crash and sweep away.  If you in the middle of all that and just let go and let the waves take over you, what a ride that would be.  This is what this song can make one feel.

For me, it speaks to a feeling of giving in and riding the wave.  Being in this space of allowing someone to flow into me and me into them.  This song appeals so much to me where you simply go with the flow of getting to know a person, make that first call or even just say hello to that person you have liked for sooo long but never had the courage to say a word to.

Celebrate the giving into inspired action!  When the stars align and all that is needed is that you action in an effortless and energizing way.  I recently had one of those moments where everything simply aligned and all I had to do was go on instinct and every word, action I did was harmonious.  Yum!

This song celebrates that sentiment for me.  Enjoy!

Bless Rugby Players : Stefan Terblanche

Got a chance to watch the Sharks and the Crusaders fight it out on the field the other day.  And Stefan just stood out for me.  He is Yum Yum.  Just loved the way he worked the field.  Big and Strong! Go Stefan!