Wiseman Nos 3 Re-Visited : 5 Things

The one area that always requires you to stay open and be aware is where we have romantic relationships.  The potential to lose yourself, your inner voice and your boundaries is there.  For those that read my earlier posts, not sure if you remember the profile of Wiseman Nos 3.  Well, for some reason the Universe has reminded me that this type of man still exists in my space.  So Wiseman Nos 3 has now taken on a refined definition for me.  He is that kind of man that you could completely lose yourself to.  And he won't stop you from losing yourself to him.  5 Things to note :

1. If you don't stand for something, you will fall for anything!  This is about knowing who you are and being comfortable in your truth.  Because of this you can stand in who you are and not change that to make someone happy
2. Boundaries!  For me I have not fully figured out boundaries in terms of whether I agree or don't agree with the word.  What I do know is that you need to understand what you are really about versus identifying with a form you think is you.  It is having an effective filter that filters the feedback you get from the world in terms of its alignment to your truth deep inside and whether you will make it your ongoing story to buy into.  It is having the courage to communicate your truth lovingly!  Sometimes this can all go out the window with wiseman nos 3 around
3. No matter what there is hope!  You can find your way back to you.  As long as you stay aware, open and curious!  Even if you go off path, you will get back to you if you have that openness
4. It always stays an opportunity to know yourself better and understand why you need him to validate something within you that you ultimately need to be ok with inside
5. He will definitely break your heart!  Not because he is a bad guy or horrible person.  But because you are not strong enough to be you and stand in your truth.  So you venture to be something else than yourself and he leaves you!  Because no matter what, it is hard work being something you are not and at some point, your resentment does creep in!

So in this quest of "I AM WORTHY" for this month.  Look at where you are asking your partner or a potential man to validate something deep inside you  that you need to get ok with by yourself first.  Take your power back of standing in your truth.  Mwah!