We all have them in our lives. Those people we deem as nasty and simply hard work to deal with. They always seem to have it in for us and simply make us feel like crap every chance they get. Some things to note:
- You are bigger than their reaction and response to who you are or what you say. We forget that and that we have a choice to allows them to make us feel inferior!
- What they are doing reflects more about them than about you. You really need to have your filters in place that can extract the truth from what they say or do
- When you strong enough to be willing, open and curious to understanding what they saying deeper, you understand what it is from where it comes and that context is priceless
- There is a belief that something you not aware of attracts the situation or nasty person, so it is a clue to the story you are telling yourself that needs understanding
- At the end of the day, sometimes the person is simply a bitter asshole despite your best intentions! But you have a choice to walk away or engage. If you engage, may it be with the ability to respond with the wisest, most loving and powerful you
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