Also Known As : Mr Twister! Mr Jekyll and Hyde!
Most Attractive Quality : There is a delicious centre. Although it is surrounded by a sarcastic, horrible, sometimes nasty exterior, deep down there is a lovable, pure, delicious centre.
Most Adorable Quality : When that delicious centre comes out to play, you cannot believe how 180 degrees this man can go.
He Makes You Feel : That you can bring out the best in him because you are soooo special and one of a kind! You are the only one that bring this out in him!
He Resonates with : That wants someone to adore you for all the great in you. That someone can be so in awe with your greatness, that it inspires them to change and be the best they can be for you.
This man has is challenges. He has barriers and getting that connection to the heart of him is tricky. Unlike Wiseman Nos 3 who is so good at hiding his baggage and is able to weave a web of an alternate reality around you, Wiseman Nos 6 at least is honest about where he struggles to be the best he can be or strong in certain areas.
You are also in a state of awareness and have more experience on your side when dealing with a man that has insecurities that he has work through. The question is whether you are there because you can rescue him so you have someone that will love you forever because of what you have done for them? Or are you about helping him find his way being the true friend? Or is it great to have someone just that more messed up than you? Being with someone like that makes you the powerful one in the relationship?
The bottom line, he is still figuring out how to be secure in himself and owning making himself happy. The temptation for you to fill that role of making him happy and being needed is huge. He draws you in with all his vulnerability and you know that he needs someone to just love him the right way. You also know deep down that it is his job not yours!
You are also in a state of awareness and have more experience on your side when dealing with a man that has insecurities that he has work through. The question is whether you are there because you can rescue him so you have someone that will love you forever because of what you have done for them? Or are you about helping him find his way being the true friend? Or is it great to have someone just that more messed up than you? Being with someone like that makes you the powerful one in the relationship?
The bottom line, he is still figuring out how to be secure in himself and owning making himself happy. The temptation for you to fill that role of making him happy and being needed is huge. He draws you in with all his vulnerability and you know that he needs someone to just love him the right way. You also know deep down that it is his job not yours!
Wiseman Nos 6 reminds you that at the end of the day, you are not responsible for someone else's happiness, inner peace and growth. All you can do is focus on your happiness and being the best person you can be. There is no prize for taking responsibility for another man's happiness and well being. Being you that inspires him to take action and own that action to be the best he can be is a good thing. As long as you know that when you finding the need to work hard at keeping him secure, happy and safe, that you know at some point, you will need to have the courage to let go and let him figure it out for himself!
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