Clearing Up The Confusion - 5 Things

Confusion / Misunderstandings can be such a dangerous thing if left to their own devices to get a life of their own and take off.  Yet so many of us prefer living in this state.  Whether it is EGO driven or that it feels safer, we tend to stay in the confusion / misunderstanding longer than we need to.  When we eventually sort it out, we usually ask why we did not do it sooner.  How much better would your life and the life of those that matter to you be if you took responsibility to clear up confusion / misunderstandings actively rather than let it unfold and get a life of it's own.  Now that is something big regarding service to relationships in your life!  Some CrazeeBee thoughts :

1. You are tapping into a belief system / a set of assumptions / an automatic story!  We all have that and in most cases, something triggers it and all that is looked at in the context of that story.  So your trick is to ask if it really is true for your life? Is that story that keeps playing in your head serving your best life?  
2. It cannot be a one-way conversation (that is all in your head) that leads to a conclusion and then that person is labelled and treated a certain way.  Maybe it is time to ask, what is this person here to teach me or enlighten me on?  Try that the next time you want to categorise someone and get them boxed and treated a certain way
3. It will never be the responsibility of another to clear up your confusion!  That is classic giving your power away, when you expect someone other than yourself to understand you and what you going through and treat you differently or gently.  It is your job to deepen your understanding and the sooner you get that, the better for you
4. It is the most wonderful opportunity to look at what you believe and decide if it serves you or not.  I think that it is incentive enough to go forth and unpack this for yourself in terms of why that confusion keeps coming up in your life.  The experiences in your life are there for you to deal with them and learn the message
5. Contrast makes you clearer on what you really want!  Life is meant to have stuff that does not make you happy as it gets you clearer on what you do want.  So these are perfect examples of what you to use to get clearer of what you need for your bliss